From the Principal
The role of father to every child is a privilege. However, it seems never before has the father role been more important. Dads can play a vital role in guiding their children through these uncertain times. I cannot overemphasise the great value fathers add to their children growing up, whether it be through active encouragement, reassurance, firm boundaries or having playful fun.
Throughout history, there seems to have always been a special and irreplaceable bond between fathers and daughters. This special bond often announces itself on the day a father walks his daughter down the aisle to the altar at her wedding. However, this singular moment of joy, pride and happiness is built on many experiences previous to that.
Over time, recording artists have captured some of the best sentiments regarding fathers and daughters. In her 1978 song “Daddy’s Little Girl”, Kippi Brannon sang one of the sweetest songs about daughters. It echoed what her dad would do for her if she was ever in trouble. He reminded her that nothing will change their special bond together.
In the Temptations super hit: “My Girl”, the lyrics reflect the answers most dads would give if they were asked: “What do you want out of Life for your daughter?” The lead singer croons that he will love and care for her always.
In 2008, at the age of 13, Taylor Swift wrote the popular “The Best Day” for her dad. Its words are an excellent gift for any dad on Father’s Day!
Grandfathers will remember Neil Young’s 1988 song “Here for You”. His lyrics told the story of being by her side whenever she needed him, no matter what or when – protective arms surrounding her… all accompanied by his signature harmonica and solo guitar.
In 2002, Paul Simon’s classic song “Father & Daughter” makes you feel happy. His lines talk to his daughter that he cannot guarantee there’s nothing scary under her bed, but he can reassure her that he will be there to watch her grow, watch her dream, and watch her shine.
Sadly, some of us no longer have our fathers. In such cases, I’m often comforted by the words of the 1993 song “How do you talk to an Angel?” performed by The Heights. They sing: “I know you’re watching over me / And taking good care of me”.
So as a College community, modelled on the Holy Family, let us celebrate Father’s Day next weekend as best we can. Making sure that Dad, Grandfather or Father-figures know their importance and feel appreciated for their love, support and gentle care.
I look forward to seeing all dads, grandfathers and father-figures next Wednesday 31 August at our Father’s Day Mass starting at 8.00am and followed by Breakfast at 8.45am.
