The importance of being a good male role model

The importance of being a good male role model cannot be overstated. Good males have a positive, lasting impact on their children’s lives, and serve as role models and mentors that help guide them through life. Male role models are the primary male influence in their children’s lives and play a vital role in their development. 

Steve Biddulph, a renowned psychotherapist, author, and public speaker, calls fatherhood ‘one of the great adventures of life.’ He writes, ‘Being a good father means being a loving, dependable, and supportive presence in a child’s life. It means providing guidance and teaching them important life skills. It means being there to provide emotional support and to listen when they need to talk. It means being involved in their lives, while at the same time giving them the space they need to grow and explore.’

Biddulph emphasises the importance of spending quality time with your children and being physically present in their lives. He suggests that males take the time to get to know their children, to understand their interests, and to really listen to what they have to say. Males should also be active in their children’s education, helping them with their school work and making sure they stay on track academically.

Good role models also provide a sense of security, stability, and unconditional love to their children. They foster healthy relationships, encourage self-confidence and personal growth, and teach their children important life lessons. They also serve as positive role models and provide guidance on how to be successful in life.

John Haydon
Assistant Head P-4