Chaplains’ Chat

There is something amazing about friendships that makes life so memorable and enjoyable. I am sure if we were to think about highlights in our lives with all of the experiences we have had, the vast majority of these would involve others in our lives. We could think of the overseas holiday with family, the sporting highlights that we witnessed last Saturday, or even a quiet, reflective moment to talk to someone. Friendships form the foundation of our lives. Of course, we know that some friendships end up being difficult or even broken. And yet the Bible says that we were made for friendship. Not only friendship with God but also with each other.

This week in Chapel, we were reminded of the deep friendship that David had with Jonathan. A friendship that was based on a deep desire to not just seek self interest but to also look out for the needs of the other. As 1 Samuel 20:17 says: “he loved David as he loved himself.” Here is a key attribute for any relationship. It is outward focused and thinks of the other and not just the self. This might be seen with a kind word, a helping hand in a difficult time, or simply being present. Jonathan indeed, is willing to even risk his life for David. This is a deep friendship. However, it is also a pointer to the wonderful friendship that we can have with God through his Son Jesus Christ, who actually gave his life so that we can have a friendship with God.

Rev Anthony Benn
Chaplain