Chaplains’ Chat

Our speech is vital in all that we do. Our speech is crucial to relationships that we have. Of course, our speech can be used in many different ways, with many different outcomes. We can use words that, unfortunately, tear down and hinder relationships. I am sure as we reflect on life and we can remember times when we have said unkind words and also when we have been on the receiving end of unkind words. However, what a joy it is in any relationship, when we use words that encourage or build people up. We often don’t do this enough. As Ephesians 4:29 reminds us: Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Our words have tremendous impact to strengthen relationships and strengthen the individual. What an encouragement it is when we use words of encouragement. Perhaps it is simply a “Well done on how you completed that task” or “I noticed how you looked after that other person who was doing it tough.”  May we be careful of the words we use but when we do speak, may we try and use words that build up and encourage people.

Rev Anthony Benn
Chaplain