{"id":3001,"date":"2025-02-20T14:41:27","date_gmt":"2025-02-20T03:41:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thebuzz.net.au\/olmcburraneer\/?post_type=article&p=3001"},"modified":"2025-02-20T14:41:44","modified_gmt":"2025-02-20T03:41:44","slug":"principals-post-on-empowering-young-women-6","status":"publish","type":"article","link":"https:\/\/www.thebuzz.net.au\/olmcburraneer\/article\/principals-post-on-empowering-young-women-6\/","title":{"rendered":"Principal’s Post on Empowering Young Women"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Since 1935, Our Lady of Mercy Catholic College has held a legacy of instilling the values of leadership, excellence and service, nurturing confident young women. We empower our girls to make their mark on society with confidence and compassion.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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The following newspaper article from The Australian (Stephen Lunn, 7 January 2025) gives some important information to parents regarding anxiety and it challenges the current approach to managing anxiety in young people, urging a shift away from overprotective behaviors and over-diagnosis. It highlights the negative impact of excessive intervention from parents and teachers, which can reinforce anxiety rather than help children develop the emotional resilience they need. By promoting the idea that anxiety is a normal emotion that can be faced and managed, the article provides valuable insights for both parents and educators in fostering healthier, more resilient approaches to dealing with anxiety in children and teenagers.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNormal childhood and teenage feelings of apprehension over difficult situations are being \u201cpathologised\u201d into lifelong anxiety by worried parents and stressed teachers.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd young Australians, egged on by social media influencers, are increasingly seeing it as a badge of honour among their peers.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is the warning from two leading clinical psychologists, who are looking to up-end current approaches to managing anxiety among young people by encouraging them to face their fears and urging well-meaning parents and teachers to pay it less attention and resist kowtowing to requests for special treatment, which too often makes matters worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This would also help contain the \u201ccontagion effect\u201d, where young people hear social media influencers proudly flaunting their anxiety, or see their peers receiving extra help, and seek the same kudos and support, psychologists Danielle Einstein and Judith Locke say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They warn anxiety has unfortunately been reframed into a lifelong condition, even though many young people simply need some temporary emotional tools to push through difficult or uncomfortable moments they\u2019d rather not be facing. And they say parents must learn to \u201ctrust their gut\u201d on this issue and stop catastrophising the chances their child has serious mental health problems. \u201cAnxiety can be a normal human emotion when doing something challenging,\u201d clinical psychologist Judith Locke tells The Australian Newspaper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBut with greater awareness of anxiety, parents have become very, very worried that their child will become anxious. So they may become involved in trying to prevent it, say, by holding their hand all the way to school or over helping with a speech for class. \u201cWhat ends up happening with that increased focus is that we start to pathologise a normal human emotion into something children can\u2019t cope with and need protection from. It\u2019s diagnosing a normal emotion.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

New research from the Murdoch Children\u2019s Research Institute found almost three-quarters of Melbourne teenagers have experienced \u201cclinically significant\u201d levels of anxiety or depression at least once by the age of 18.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And in 2023 more than one in seven of the nearly 70,000 students sitting the NSW HSC were granted some form of special assistance in their final exams, with 8000 given rest breaks for anxiety or concentration issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Australian Council for Educational Research\u2019s Social-Emotional Wellbeing Survey last year analysed 500,000 responses from primary and secondary school students since 2018, finding 53 percent of high-schoolers reporting they felt \u201cvery stressed\u201d and one in three primary school children saying they \u201cfeel very bad for long periods of time\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAs a society we\u2019ve flipped towards recognising all mental health disorders and intervening wherever possible to remove the stigma,\u201d Dr Einstein says. \u201cThe system has now been set up to almost reward anxiety rather than leave it as a normal experience that just needs to be more or less managed by the individual, with a touch of professional help if necessary. But sometimes just some information from the right place will help steer them back on course.\u201d Dr Locke explains how this is playing out in schools across the country, and why \u201canxiety\u201d is spreading like wildfire, often due to worried parents intervening. \u201cIf a child is about to do a speech in class, they\u2019re going to feel understandably nervous, but they\u2019re looking for a reprieve. They mention to a parent they are anxious about doing it, and would prefer not to, or make the speech alone to the teacher at lunchtime. \u201cThe parent then speaks to the teacher, who agrees to let the child make the speech alone at lunchtime. Then the child\u2019s friend hears that, and also is a bit nervous about the speech, so they ask for the same thing, and this is when the contagion effect happens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhat we\u2019re really talking about is discomfort being amplified up.\u201d Dr Locke says another example is a child saying they need to be in a camp group with their best friend or they\u2019ll be anxious. The best response would be for them to have to make the effort to get along with new people, but there is heightened emotion when the word anxiety is trotted out, she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The other concern is the new social cachet associated with a label of anxiety. \u201cThere\u2019s almost a performative element to influencers talking about their anxiety,\u201d Dr Einstein says. \u201cIt\u2019s easy to exaggerate and indulge the feelings in order to get more views, to make it a bit more glamorous. \u201cThis is really not helpful, because most of the mental health advice being offered is not reliable, and it leaves people dwelling on anxiety.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So what should young people feeling anxious do? And what advice is there for parents and teachers? \u201cAnxiety has almost become a sexy word, almost like a badge. It\u2019s saying \u2018treat me differently, treat me like I\u2019m special\u2019. It\u2019s not encouraging people to face in and overcome their anxiety on their own,\u201d Dr Locke says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr Einstein says the best way to treat anxiety is to \u201cstarve it of attention\u201d. \u201cThe most crucial element that everyone seems to be missing at the moment is that we have to get over anxiety by ourselves. I\u2019ve got to be able to beat whatever it is that I\u2019m afraid of on my own, and know that I did it.  \u201cBeating it might just mean enduring it and getting to the other side of it so that time passes and I realise I\u2019m still okay. It might not be that I have, you know, a fantastic, wonderful day. \u201cI might not have enjoyed what\u2019s happened, but it means seeing that I got to the other side of it, and that I\u2019m all right, and knowing therefore that I can do it again,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr Locke says parents \u201caren\u2019t trusting their gut\u201d on how they handle these issues with their children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThey\u2019re thinking that \u2018My child is one day away from bad mental health issues\u2019, which is not correct. There\u2019s a lot of catastrophising.\u201d \u201cThere\u2019s also some very bad advice on social media, dumb mate forums, as I call them, where you are often getting the worst advice because it sounds the most caring, like letting them stay home from school after they\u2019ve had a fight with a friend.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr Locke says parents should not indulge conversations about negative feelings. \u201cOne of the worst questions I think you can ask a child is \u2018How do you feel about your exams?\u2019. Or \u2018How do you feel about starting school?\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cParents see good parenting as focusing on emotion, but (to reduce the risk of anxiety) it is better to focus on the things that happen rather than their feelings about what happened. \u201cEven if they do talk about uncomfortable feelings, then go through the process of \u2018listen, empathise, then normalise\u2019. \u201cIf we don\u2019t do that step of normalising, then they\u2019ll start to think, \u2018I\u2019m the only one that was nervous today at school\u2019, or \u2018I was the only one that\u2019s nervous about school camp next week\u2019,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr Einstein also warns of the danger of allowing children who are feeling anxious to spend hours alone on their social media, which tends to create a vicious circle. Both women regularly advise schools about how to handle the tidal wave of anxiety flowing through the education system. But they acknowledge teachers are in a professionally uncomfortable situation if they opt to help a child through their anxiety rather than being kind to them. \u201cEven the teacher that insists that the child doesn\u2019t get in the camp group with their best friend and that they just make a new friend, there\u2019s a great likelihood that other people are going to think the teacher is mean and not see that they are actually encouraging that child to be able to do what they need to do in life,\u201d Dr Locke says. \u201cEven psychologists and GPs are receiving parental pressure to write letters to excuse children from facing tricky things they could do, but simply don\u2019t want to do.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr Einstein says it is critical to remember that anxiety is not usually a lifelong condition, and that we need to stop the \u201csubtle benefits\u201d to help children overcome it and develop greater resilience and confidence in the longer term. \u201cSometimes I speak to people and they say \u2018Oh no, I know that anxiety will be with me for life\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBut you can change it, and if you have the right approach to it, it\u2019s not something that has to defeat you for life.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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