{"id":15836,"date":"2026-08-07T09:24:31","date_gmt":"2026-08-06T23:24:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thebuzz.net.au\/mscw\/?post_type=article&#038;p=15836"},"modified":"2026-08-07T09:24:31","modified_gmt":"2026-08-06T23:24:31","slug":"from-the-leader-of-wellbeing-70","status":"publish","type":"article","link":"https:\/\/www.thebuzz.net.au\/mscw\/article\/from-the-leader-of-wellbeing-70\/","title":{"rendered":"From the Leader of Wellbeing"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><span style=\"font-weight: 800\">Privacy and your Child <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.esafety.gov.au\/parents\/issues-and-advice\/privacy-child\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">(Link)<\/span><\/a><\/h4>\n<h5><span style=\"font-weight: 600\">Help your child to stay in control of their online identity including their personal information, photos and videos<\/span><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There has been a significant amount of discussion, research and publicity recently related specifically young people and their image. By image I am referring to their physical appearance that can make its way onto the internet through social media. Sites and apps such as, instagram, facebook, youtube, sharing images of themselves and\/or others in chats on social media platforms such as Snapchat and Whatsapp, imessage, live streaming through these apps, the list goes on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">With advances in technology, specifically the creation and use of AI by companies and individuals children, young people and those with disabilities are more at risk and vulnerable than before.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Young people are developing relationships online with AI Companions (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.esafety.gov.au\/sites\/default\/files\/2025-07\/AI-companions-information-sheet-educators.pdf?v=1785677847423\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">more information on AI Companions<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">) and seeking guidance\/advice from AI Chatbots (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.esafety.gov.au\/newsroom\/blogs\/ai-chatbots-and-companions-risks-to-children-and-young-people\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">AI chatbots and companions \u2013 risks to children and young people | eSafety Commissioner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It is essential that adults support young people to navigate the world thoughtfully, safely, and respectfully. This includes crossing the road, learning how to swim, and how to stay safe online. Connected to the internet is not going to go away so it is our job to instruct, model and openly discuss without judgement how they can stay safe online and what to do when something occurs that makes them feel unsafe, uncomfortable and\/or exposed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><span style=\"font-weight: 800\">Reduce the Risk <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.esafety.gov.au\/parents\/issues-and-advice\/online-safety-basics\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">(link)<\/span><\/a><\/h5>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Be engaged, open and supportive <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.esafety.gov.au\/parents\/issues-and-advice\/protecting-children-from-sexual-abuse-online\/talking-with-13-to-18\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">(Talking about online child sexual abuse with 13 to 18 year olds | eSafety Commissioner)<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Set rules<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Regularly review safety features and settings &#8211; <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">every update comes with new settings OR it resets the safety features that have been activated, such as location, and account privacy settings.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.02.20-pm.png\" data-rel=\"lightcase\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15957 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.02.20-pm-640x638.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"638\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.02.20-pm-640x638.png 640w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.02.20-pm-1024x1021.png 1024w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.02.20-pm-320x320.png 320w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.02.20-pm-768x766.png 768w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.02.20-pm-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.02.20-pm.png 1079w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The following information comes from:<\/span><\/i> <a href=\"https:\/\/beyou.edu.au\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Be You<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Be You is funded by the Australian Government Department of Health, Disability and Ageing, and delivered through a unique partnership between Beyond Blue, Early Childhood Australia and headspace. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This partnership makes Be You the only free national initiative supporting mental health and wellbeing in education from birth to 18.<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><b>What is Bullying?<\/b><\/h5>\n<h5><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/beyou.edu.au\/resources\/fact-sheets\/communication-and-relationships\/bullying\">Bullying &#8211; Be You<\/a><\/strong> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">(fact sheet)<\/span><\/i><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bullying is an ongoing and deliberate misuse of power in relationships. It occurs through repeated verbal, physical, online and\/or social behaviour that intends to cause harm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bullying can be carried out by an individual or group towards one or more people and is a complex social problem.<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><b>What Bullying Isn\u2019t?<\/b><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Behaviours that are <\/span><b>NOT<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> considered bullying include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">mutual arguments and disagreements (where there\u2019s no power imbalance)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">not liking someone or a single act of social rejection<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">one-off acts of meanness or nastiness<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">isolated incidents of aggression, intimidation or violence<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h5><b>Recognising bullying behaviour<\/b><\/h5>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/beyou.edu.au\/resources\/fact-sheets\/communication-and-relationships\/recognising-bullying-behaviour\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Recognising bullying behaviour &#8211; Be You<\/span><\/a> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">(fact sheet)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Signs which may indicate that an individual is being bullied bullying could include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">a change in an individual\u2019s demeanour, engagement or attendance of school<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">damage to belongings or belongings becoming \u2018lost\u2019 more frequently<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">shifts in friendships which seem to leave one or more child or young person unhappy<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">a young person who is being ignored or excluded<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">young person arriving or leaving school late or very early<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">young person with more injuries than usual such as bruises<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-04-at-10.38.00-am.png\" data-rel=\"lightcase\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15959 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-04-at-10.38.00-am-451x640.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"451\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-04-at-10.38.00-am-451x640.png 451w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-04-at-10.38.00-am-225x320.png 225w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-04-at-10.38.00-am-106x150.png 106w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-04-at-10.38.00-am.png 596w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 451px) 100vw, 451px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h5><b>What to do?<\/b><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If you suspect, or know, that your daughter (or if she has disclosed concerns regarding another individual) encourage her to connect with her Tutor Teacher or House Coordinator and let them know. If she feels uncomfortable doing this contact the College and arrange a meeting with her House Coordinator where you can support your daughter inform the College of the actions of others or those that she has experienced, witnessed or engaged in herself.<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><b><i>Why is this important?\u00a0\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/h5>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.00.03-pm.png\" data-rel=\"lightcase\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15941\" src=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.00.03-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"641\" height=\"326\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.00.03-pm.png 641w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.00.03-pm-320x163.png 320w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.00.03-pm-295x150.png 295w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 641px) 100vw, 641px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It is the right thing to do, for everyone that is involved, especially your daughter as she continues to develop into a <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Marist Woman of Action<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. By encouraging and supporting your daughter to report what may be bullying you are revealing to her that you are a person of <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">courage<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Your actions embody your core belief in the importance of <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">empowering<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> self and others and how essential to growth it is for those involved to be accountable for their actions. You will instill in her the importance of justice and that goodness is above everything else &#8211;<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Virtus Super Omnia<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"highlight\">\n<blockquote class=\"pullquote\">\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cThe only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good people to do nothing\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This is a quote often attributed to Edmund Burke (1729-1797), an Anglo-Irish politician who fiercely opposed the French Revoultion as it demonstrated the dangers of \u2018<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">mob rule<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2019 that he believed would cause the the downfall of society (justice and peace). However, it is most likely a paraphrase from the content of his political pamphlet <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cThoughts on the Cause of the Present Discontents\u201d <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">(1770).\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"highlight\">\n<blockquote class=\"pullquote\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good people to do nothing<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201d <br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 1rem\">was not a discovery in 1770, rather it was an expression of the Christian sacred text, the Bible.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.01.49-pm.png\" data-rel=\"lightcase\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15942\" src=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.01.49-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"623\" height=\"244\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.01.49-pm.png 623w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.01.49-pm-320x125.png 320w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.01.49-pm-383x150.png 383w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 623px) 100vw, 623px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I end\u00a0 with a reminder of the words Christ said to his disciples (<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">us<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">) immediately prior to his crucifixion, death, resurrection and ascension:\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"highlight\">\n<blockquote class=\"pullquote\">\n<p><b><i>\u201cTruly I tell you, just as you did not do it to one of the least of these,\u00a0<\/i><\/b><b><i>you did not do it to me.\u201d\u00a0 <\/i><\/b> <b>Matthew 25:40-45<\/b><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<h5><b>Who to contact?<\/b><\/h5>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Your daughter\u2019s Tutor Teacher<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Your daughter\u2019s House Coordinator<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.03.08-pm.png\" data-rel=\"lightcase\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15943\" src=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.03.08-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"603\" height=\"305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.03.08-pm.png 603w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.03.08-pm-320x162.png 320w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.03.08-pm-297x150.png 297w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 603px) 100vw, 603px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h5><b>Ways to strengthen family connections<\/b><\/h5>\n<ul>\n<li><b><\/b><b> \u00a0 <\/b> <b>Spend one-on-one time<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 even 10 minutes of child-led time a day strengthens trust.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> \u00a0 <\/b> <b>Eat meals together <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2013 regular shared meals are linked to better behaviour and communication.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> \u00a0 <\/b> <b>Listen without judging<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 ask open questions and let your child express themselves fully.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> \u00a0 <\/b> <b>Be a role model <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2013 show kindness and respect in your own relationships, online and offline.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> \u00a0 <\/b> <b>Be consistent <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2013 clear routines and boundaries help children feel secure and respected.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h5><b>How to respond<\/b><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Your child may be less likely to raise concerns when they are uncertain what will happen after they speak up, so it\u2019s important to respond with consideration and understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><b>How to respond:<\/b><\/h5>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Listen \u2013 find a quiet space, give them your full attention, and let them share their experience without interruptions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Calmly ask questions \u2013 wait until they have finished talking and gently try to get a full picture of the situation.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Acknowledge their experiences and the impacts \u2013 \u2018I can see this is very upsetting and I can understand why you\u2019re worried about going to school &#8230;\u2019<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Help them to feel safe \u2013 let them know you will work with them to try to make things better.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Involve them in the response plan \u2013 being bullied can feel like a huge loss of control and can impact self-esteem and confidence. Help them regain control by including them in decisions about how to address the issue.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Support them to recover \u2013 this includes offering emotional support, focusing on their wellbeing and supporting them to develop positive coping strategies.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h5><b>Ask your child about:<\/b><\/h5>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The bullying \u2013 when, where, who, how.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">How they feel about it, what they think about it and why they think it might be happening \u2013 this can help you get a better understanding of what\u2019s going on from their perspective. Children and young people can sometimes blame themselves for the behaviour of others, and if this is the case, it\u2019s important to know early so you can help them to understand that it is not their fault.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">How they responded \u2013 how did they react? This can help you to understand what they might be doing to cope and what they might have tried already to fix the problem.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h5><b>Conversation starters<\/b><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Keeping the conversation open can help your child feel safe to talk about problems.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Try:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b><i><\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2018Who did you spend time with today?\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2018What was something that made you smile?\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2018Who did you sit with at lunch?\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2018Was there anything that made you feel uncomfortable or upset?\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2018Do you know what to do if someone sends you messages that are hurtful?\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2018Was there anything today that was tricky or frustrating?\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2018Who do you feel safe talking to at school?\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2018What could you do if someone was being mean to you or someone else?\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2018What could you do to help someone who is being treated unfairly?\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h5><b>If your child may be bullying others<\/b><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Hearing that your child may be bullying others can be challenging but remember that children are still learning and growing. Bullying is a behaviour that can be changed with guidance and support.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If your child is bullying others, it may indicate they need help building social and emotional skills, such as managing emotions, empathy and forming positive relationships. Bullying can stem from a desire to belong or be accepted, and without guidance, these behaviours may impact their wellbeing and future. Supporting them to treat others respectfully is key to their development.<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><b>How to respond:<\/b><\/h5>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <b>Stay <\/b><b>curious<\/b><b>, not angry<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cCan you help me understand what\u2019s been going on?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <b>Talk about <\/b><b>empathy<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cWhat do you think the other person felt?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <b>Set clear <\/b><b>expectations<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cIn our family, we treat others with fairness and respect\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <b>Guide them to <\/b><b>repair<\/b><b> harm<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 talk about apologies, making amends, or writing a note<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <b>Work with the school<\/b> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2013 ask about positive behaviour support or mentoring programs<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h5><b>Final tips<\/b><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bullying can be incredibly distressing to experience and can have a lasting impact on children and young people\u2019s wellbeing \u2013 affecting their confidence, academic performance and mental health.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bullying is about power imbalances, and young people often feel powerless when faced with it. <\/span><b>But they are not powerless<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. They can take action to deal with the bullying, such as telling a trusted adult, trying some techniques to stop the bullying themselves and using positive coping strategies to get back a sense of agency.<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><b>Remember to:<\/b><\/h5>\n<ul>\n<li><b><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <b>Act early<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 if something feels wrong, talk to your child and involve the school or community organisation.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <b>Keep notes<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 writing down incidents helps everyone respond clearly and quickly.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <b>Work as a team<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 consistency between home and school makes a big difference.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u00a0 <\/span> <b>Take care of yourself<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u2013 supporting a child through bullying can be emotional. It\u2019s okay to ask for help too.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.17.14-pm.png\" data-rel=\"lightcase\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15958\" src=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.17.14-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"668\" height=\"673\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.17.14-pm.png 668w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.17.14-pm-635x640.png 635w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.17.14-pm-318x320.png 318w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-2.17.14-pm-149x150.png 149w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 668px) 100vw, 668px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h5><b>Additional Resources<\/b><\/h5>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bullyingnoway.gov.au\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bullying. No Way!<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Headspace resources for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/headspace.org.au\/explore-topics\/for-young-people\/bullying\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">young people<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/headspace.org.au\/explore-topics\/supporting-a-young-person\/bullying\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">for families<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The Office of the eSafety Commissioner \u2013 <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.esafety.gov.au\/key-issues\/cyberbullying\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Cyberbullying<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.04.20-pm.png\" data-rel=\"lightcase\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15944 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.04.20-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"236\" height=\"243\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.04.20-pm.png 236w, https:\/\/d1dfwahqlx324v.cloudfront.net\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-03-at-12.04.20-pm-146x150.png 146w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 236px) 100vw, 236px\" \/><\/a>Our school is now subscribed to the Happy Families School Membership! Owned and run by Dr Justin Coulson, one of Australia\u2019s leading parenting experts, the membership offers a wealth of parenting education and resources.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">We will regularly share resources available through our membership with you, including Insight Articles and Live Webinars. You can also access your resources at any time<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/happyfamilies.com.au\/courses\/bloom-school-membership\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">here.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h5><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Our Sign Up Link<\/span><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Sign up for your own account using our school\u2019s unique sign-up link.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/happyfamilies.com.au\/schools-enrol?ldgr_gr_code=MARISTSISTERSCOLLEGEWOOLWICH\"><b><i>https:\/\/happyfamilies.com.au\/schools-enrol?ldgr_gr_code=MARISTSISTERSCOLLEGEWOOLWICH<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<h5><b>How to log in to your Bloom Membership Library<\/b><\/h5>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/drive.google.com\/file\/d\/1vpIC4_0Tdz-oQ3oKHQ8sjIE-wgQ7z5hY\/view?usp=sharing\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\" data-rich-links=\"{&quot;fple-t&quot;:&quot;MSCW-HFS-Bloom.pdf&quot;,&quot;fple-u&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/drive.google.com\/file\/d\/1vpIC4_0Tdz-oQ3oKHQ8sjIE-wgQ7z5hY\/view?usp=sharing&quot;,&quot;fple-mt&quot;:&quot;application\/pdf&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;first-party-link&quot;}\">MSCW-HFS-Bloom.pdf<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Once you\u2019ve signed up, you just need to be logged in to the website for full access through the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/happyfamilies.com.au\/courses\/?current_page=1&amp;search=&amp;type=my-courses&amp;order=desc&amp;orderby=alphabetical&amp;filter-categories=school-membership&amp;request_url=https%3A%2F%2Fhappyfamilies.com.au%2Fcourses%2F\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cMy Resources\u201d<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> section of the website.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">We will share with you Insight articles written by Dr Justin Coulson and provide parenting education and support for a wide variety of traditional and contemporary parenting challenges. You can also access 100+ previous Insights articles by following the\u00a0 <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/happyfamilies.com.au\/courses\/?current_page=1&amp;search=&amp;type=my-courses&amp;order=desc&amp;orderby=alphabetical&amp;filter-categories=school-membership&amp;request_url=https%3A%2F%2Fhappyfamilies.com.au%2Fcourses%2F\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cMy Resources\u201d<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> link.<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><b>Video Library<\/b><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">A collection of over 70 of Dr Justin Coulson\u2019s parenting webinars are available in the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/happyfamilies.com.au\/courses\/video-library\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Video Library<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, covering a wide range of parenting topics for help at every stage.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: 1rem\"><b>Year 9 Camp<\/b><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 1rem\">Wednesday 19 August &#8211; Friday 21 August.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bus Departure from Weil Park: Wednesday 19 August @ 8:10am.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Parents will be sent a Compass notification via text message through Compass of the expected return to the College on Friday (estimated return will be 2:45pm). 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